Punching Bag

Marah macammana pun dengan org lain, please la jangan dilempiaskan kemarahan tu ke org lain pulak.

Today, first day I masuk keje minggu ni. I cuti semalam. Masuk opis, biasa la...ada queries from auditor yg nak dijawab and kena follow up on request balance confirmation dari shareholders. Since one of the shareholder x reply lagi, i sent an email requesting them to reply.

She called me. In a tone yg menunjukkan dia tak berpuas hati, and ask...why she need to confirm the balance? According to her, it looks like she is the one yg buat keje auditor. (Financial auditor out there, nak tanya...bukan ke salah satu cara yg paling tepat ialah balance confirmation from 3rd party? Instead of doing vouching dari revenue and receivable balance kan? I ni lama dah x buat audit on financial reporting ni...tapi rasanya kalau ikut ranking, confirmation dr 3rd party lebih baik dari vouching internal document kan?).

I ni memang penyabar orangnya, tapi sabar i ada limit juga tau. Bila sampai tahap 'ko ni apa hal nak marah aku pulak...' i memang malas nk bertekak. Laipun, makin kita layan, makin menjadi jadi marah dia. so i just shut my mouth and let her vent her anger and dissatisfaction. Dah habis dia bcakap tu, i just said, 'OK I'll check with auditor' and i hang up the phone.

I x faham, apa yg susah sgt dia nak reply confirmation tu. ...apa yg susah sgt ko nak reply balance confirmation? If tanak reply pon, fine! tak yah reply. Yg jadik i sakit ati, i pulak dia nk syarahkan as if i ni staff dia. We are of equal rank. I didn't report to her pun. 

Penat tau jadi punching bag.... (this is not the first time... dah a few time jadi mcm ni...).

p/s: My MIL dah keluar hospital hari ni...alhamdulillah... TQ atas doa kawan2 semua... Skang ni sambung recovery kat rumah pula...